Friday, December 7, 2007

clarification


I guess, this is just a translation of “澄清”. Since I started writing, I heard so much comment. Haha, one of the more worrying ones come from the response I have from the blog on “an unexpected Saturday”. Friends wrote some comments after reading, they say it sounds so “GAYISH”. This response really surprises me! How did such a feeling evolved among these friends? Well… but I guess it’s better to make things clear so as to prevent any form of misunderstanding. This is the reason why I wrote this article I guess…
I used to have the dream of having a brother since I was young. The reason might be because my elder sister wasn’t very nice to me since I was young. We were not in a very nice relationship when we were young. (I need to say my sis have started treated me better since she started dating, I am really happy about this.) Furthermore, friends around me always tell me that they have a good elder brother, a brother who can protect them, who will always be there whenever they need any help. I guess this is the reason why I always envy friends who have an elder brother. (I guess I am just another Cinderalla when I am young… sobz…)
This friend that I mention in “an unexpected Saturday” was actually an ex-superior of mine during my NSF days. (I still regard him as my superior now, although I have already ORD, I will always regard him as my superior forever) I know him since my NSF days in 2SIR, however, we never really know each other (neither did we talk much in camp), it was until I started learning swimming from him, then did we started to talk a bit more.
Many of my friends who do not know him will surely be confused why did I put in so much effort in regarding him as a friend, but I guess people who really know him in person will surely have the same feeling as mine. He is one of the bravest, most hardworking, most serious person I have ever seen on earth. Assuming that humans are differentiated in different quality, I will say, he is the cream among the crop, or something better than that. In terms of working attitude, he is one of the most serious and hardworking guy in the workforce, in terms of friendship, he is the most loyal friend you can ever find. Although he always says that he is neither a good friend nor a good company, but the fact is that, if he is not a good friend, I am sure you can never find a better friend on earth. (This is absolute truth!)
I can still remember him helping me when I was sick, he came specially over to my place to see me and stay over-night to take care of me just to ensure that I am alright, he control over my diet just to ensure that my cough is recovering in no time. He pay for my chiropatic treatment first when I was unable to pay for the bill. There is so much things so good about him that I simply can’t describe here, perhaps, it’s until anyone who sees him in person then will they know how good he is. A person worth the respect from everyone on earth.

2 comments:

  1. Hi lonely_tiger,

    your article made me realised the preciousness of a loving family. i came from a happy family, i love n am loved by all my family members...i feel. though i quarrel alot with my brother and there are many things that we disagree on, but i think we still care for one another. i think i m so fortunate.

    u must have had a difficult time being the Cinderalla in your family. so courageous of u to overcome ur sis evil claws, glad u r finally seeing some light. hope it lasts.... :)

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  2. thanks bell:)i really hope this happiness will last too:) and i wish u happy always:) treasure your family, i believe we will find each other precious one day:)

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